Support for Parents

Deafening Silence stillbirth

No words can describe the pain

When we lose someone we love the grieving process and period is different for everyone.  Whether we suffer the loss of a family member we have known for many years or someone we have barely known or perhaps never even met, the grief for those involved is no less painful.

As family members or friends it can be unbearable watching those we love grieving and trying to cope with situations that we could never imagine or prepare for ourselves.  Losing a baby is unimaginable to most of us and something we are rarely prepared for which makes it even harder to know how to act or what to say to other family members.

We don’t pretend to have all the answers however, we do know that the more you understand about how the parents are feeling the easier it will be to support them.

  • The provision of the Abi cooling cots gives bereaved parents much needed extended time with their baby before saying goodbye which is vital in the healing process.
  • Training midwives in bereavement support and how to manage and care for parents who have experienced the loss of a baby is also extremely important.
  • While our baby loss counselling service funds sessions for parents and families once they have returned home to help them through the grieving process.

If you need support for your family you can contact us here and if you would like to support our charity in memory of a loved one we would be very grateful. See here for the different ways you can help us.


We are grateful to join in partnership with Rochester Cathedral for ‘Wave of Light’ on 15th October, the doors to the Cathedral will be open from 18:30. We would like to invite you to join with our charity and other families across the world by lighting a candle to remember all babies that have died too soon.

15th October 2020 Wave of Light service at Rochester Cathedral




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